Trust & safety
Community Guidelines
Last updated: 3 October 2026
Monmilan is for people seriously looking for marriage. These guidelines form part of our Terms of Use and apply to profiles, photos, messages, calls and anything else you share.
1. Be genuine
- Create a profile only for yourself, or for a family member with their knowledge and consent.
- You must be legally eligible to marry: at least 21 years old for men and 18 for women, and not currently married (unless divorced, widowed or legally separated, which your profile must state).
- Give accurate details — age, marital status, community, education, profession and income — and keep them up to date.
- Use recent photos of yourself only. No celebrity, group-only, edited-beyond-recognition or borrowed photos.
2. Be respectful
- Respect “no”. If someone declines or blocks you, don’t contact them through other means.
- No harassment, threats, abusive or sexual messages, or pressure to share contact details or photos.
- No discrimination or hateful remarks about anyone’s community, religion, caste, appearance or disability. Partner preferences are personal; insulting others is not.
3. Not allowed on Monmilan
- Fraud, asking for money or gifts, or promoting investments, products or services.
- Dating or casual-relationship requests, escort or adult content.
- Fake profiles, impersonation, or profiles created on behalf of someone without their consent.
- Sharing another member’s photos, messages or contact details outside Monmilan without their permission.
- Scraping, automated messaging, or any attempt to bypass privacy controls or plan limits.
- Content involving minors, or anything illegal under Indian law.
4. How we enforce these guidelines
We may review reported content, hide or edit non-compliant profile fields or photos, issue warnings, restrict features, or suspend and permanently remove accounts. Serious violations — fraud, threats, or anything involving minors — lead to immediate removal and may be reported to the authorities.
Fees for accounts removed for violating these guidelines are not refundable (see our Refund Policy).
5. Report a problem
Use Report on any profile or chat. If you disagree with an action we took on your account, you can appeal to our Grievance Officer.